If you have secret anger or bitterness towards your partner, quit hiding it! Make him or her aware of your feelings and decide if you're able to forgive and forget. If you can't, it's better to get out of the relationship rather than stay and cheat.

One often surprising reason behind infidelity is self-destruction. Some people have such low self-esteem that when something good happens to them (such as meeting and dating a great man or woman), they think they don't deserve that gift. In response to such feelings, these people may go out of their way to self-destruct their relationships. Other people keep their feelings hidden, thinking "better to break their heart before they can break mine." Self-esteem and trust issues this extreme may require outside support in the form of couples or individual counseling. If you believe your mate is suffering from such feelings, assist them by offering your love, praise, and affection. 

If you want to protect your relationship from infidelity, you must first protect your relationship from the silent killers - jealousy, bitterness, low self-esteem, and mistrust. The only way to do this is through honest communication. Reveal your true emotions and needs to your partner and encourage him to do the same. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8月的这里，已经不像7月这么炎热了。听说今年上海好像极热。嘿嘿！ 幸好不在那里，都快成人干拉！不过这里也是热，紫外线厉害，我都快变成黑人了。

望着海的那个方向，他们说，就是回家的方向，可以游泳回家，嘿嘿..... 什么时候心情好了，试试吧。

看看自己也老大不小了，怎么还像个孩子呢，真是的！

可是，没办法啊，谁叫这就是我呢！

性格难改啊！

不过这样也好

每年多过一个节日11.11

心情好多了，

继续HYSTERICAL